i forgotten?

i wanna... SCREAM!!!

and the times change again...

Friday, May 2, 2008

it used to be have more babies...
gst increase...
mas selamat escape
and now global warming...
undeniable fact no.1:
turning on the air-con does not help bring the temperature down =D
fact no.2:
the ozone layer (you know? the one that blocks off UV-rays? yeah that one...)
actually replenishes itself! thats so cool. although not much to do with global warming :X

"seasons change but people don't"
quoted from a song. (YAY i memorized another quote! wait, does that even count?)
unfortunately, does not apply to me.
seasons DO change, the same way people change.
gradually? suddenly? idk
but we must be able to face these changes and
either adapt or get frustrated over them. lol

OHYA! something interesting i heard abt today...
THE 5 LOVE LANGUAGES!
so cool, turns out that theres actually this book
ya, wadever
its like, sorting out how we show our love/appreciation/care/concern
into 5 things:
-touch
-gifts
-words of affirmation
-quality time
-acts of service

its like so cool!
so for example, each of us has this "love tank" in us
and like, when other people show love to us through different ways, the "tank" is filled
eg. person A's love language is quality time. So when others spend quality time with A, A feels loved and the tank is filled!
but eg. person B's LL is gifts and gives A a gift, A wont feel as loved as much as if A were to spend quality time with B.

how to determine which LL are you? (or another person)
observe the person's actions, way of thinking, likes/dislikes
for example, me!
i love to hug people, shake hands, hi-5, poke and whatever.
so guess what LL do i speak?
touch, duh
gifts, expresses appreciation by giving gifts
words, thanks by praising
act of service, shows gratitude by helping physically
quality time, loves to spend time tgt

so on and so forth.

when u determine someone's LL, it would be the best if you love that person according to his/her LL. And i strongly believe that this works! So try it out!

eg. gifts the easiest, presents!
words, thank, praise the person for their actions...
so on.

aint it cool?
anyone gt that book? i wont mind borrowing :X

exams nxt week le!
well, at least mine is,
those that gna have tests, exams,
good luck! although its only mid-year,
i believe many will be screwed if performance is not up to mark.
work hard everyone!

(im an exception!) ><

posted | 10:24:00 PM
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